you cant make everyone happy
why do some people hate you?
everyone is the same.
you can behave properly or improperly with someone. people will respond properly or improperly with you.
The happy flow of human interaction is that, when you behave properly with someone and they respond properly then its a congenial feeling and thats where politeness and respect comes from.
But if you behave properly with someone and they respond improperly with you, then thats where disrespect or impoliteness comes from.
But, what we need to understand is that what is considered proper and improper is subjective to each persons mind. So this entire judgement trail is happening without the context window of the other person. Hence the term called learn to walk in the other persons shoes comes from.
At the end of the day, everyone is the same, so its best to be patient and understanding of other's behaviours to you, mostly its not malice. But in the few cases it is malice, then the proper way to respond is to give it back to them. In such cases, being tolerant and forgiving would be the improper response.